Effects Of Fighting In Front Of Children

     Fighting in front of your child could be one of the most foolish things to do. Parents must be aware of the fact that such things could make bad parenting.

    
     It is important to put certain issues around the moment your kids are around. If there are any issues between you and your spouse, it is better to settle them when kids are not around.

   It is good to remember that every act of yours will have its own influence in the kid's mind. When your actions do impact your children, being more conscious and mindful would surely help.

   Therefore, ensure that you stop fighting in front of your baby.

Fear 

   One of the first effects of fighting in front your baby is that it creates fear in your child. Your kid might or might not be able to understand the reason behind the fight but he or she can surely understand that something is wrong between his parents and something unpleasant is going on. Kids may get intimidated and this might create certain complexes in them. 

Wrong Example 

     You are setting a wrong example by fighting in front of your kids. Your kids would pick up those behaviour traits and might try to imitate you when they grow up. Aggression, when imitated may become an unpleasant behaviour trait in your kids.

Likes & Dislikes 

     Parents fighting in front of the baby may even look like enemies to kids. Kids may tend to take sides and form opinions about their parents. They may like one parents and may start hating the other parent. This is dangerous as kids generally love both the parents alike. 

Unpleasant Childhood Memories 

     Kids would develop bad childhood memories if they frequently see arguing parents or quarrelling adults around. Try to give some pleasant childhood memories for you kid so that he or she can look back and feel proud of being your kid.

Do You Know What Your Child Wants From You?

         We are living in the 21st century where things are changing very fast. If you pay a closer attention the world around you, then you can find some very challenging issues that are very difficult to tackle at times. Though these situations are not impossible to tackle and make them go in favor of you, there is no doubt that you need to take things very seriously

         Among many other things, the task of parenting is one of the most critical things. With the growing impact of satellite cable networks, mobile phones, and other media devices, kids are becoming mature before their age. Due to this, they are developing their own understanding that are often harmful for them.

        However, you need to take care of certain things, while bringing up your kids. Today, the kids are very sensitive by nature. You need to know what kids expect from parents. If you pay attention towards their habits and activities, then the task of finding what kids want from parents becomes easier for you. However, it is very true that you need to have a very sophisticated way to handle the situation, otherwise there are endless possibilities of your child getting spoiled in the end. 

     
      Following are some of the things what kids want from parents, take a note of them, and try to act accordingly:

They Want You To Spend Time With Them: 

            This is quite natural a demand. In many cases, children consider their parents as their role models. They try to learn things from you.Therefore, they want to spend time with you. To a greater extent, this is a valid demand, and you also need to manage it positively.

They Expect Love And Compassion: 

        As said, kids are very sophisticated by nature, and that is why they feel secure with your love and affection. This is one of the most important things what kids expect from parents. As their parents, it is your responsibility to show them your love and compassion.

They Want Guidance: 

       Your guidance can build the career of your kids. The children are well-aware of this, and that is why they want your guidance. This guidance becomes a decisive factor, especially when they find it difficult to decide something on their own.

hey Want You Present In Special School Events: 

        Children feel proud to find their parents among the audience when they are participating in any school event. Your presence in such a function is what kids expect from parents. Won't their participation on the stage make you feel proud? If yes, then try to be there, and fulfill this demand of your kid.

They Want To Listen To Stories: 

      In olden days, this responsibility was usually shared by the grandparents. These days, the children are more interested in listening to the stories from their parent. It is quite agreeable that you won't find enough time to do so, you can at least do this once or twice in a week.

They Want To Eat Together:

         "Family that Eats Together, Stays Together" is a golden line that is always true. This is one of the things what kids expect from parents. If you also face such demand, there is no harm in fulfilling it. It will strengthen family relationships for sure. Though there can be many more of such demands, you should never be upset about fulfilling them. You should at least try to speak to them with a smiling face, and try to comfort them when they are in some kind of trouble